..anat0my 0f friendship..

Author: ctjuliana / Labels:

"What is a friend means? A single soul dwelling in two bodies"... - Aristotle

"What is anotomy means? It is, part of our body".. - General

Im so boring today, so, i sort of "punggah" all the document and folder in this very old computer..suddenly, i found one special folder named "beautiful friendship"..i opened it. and...intrestingly, i found this nice article..it was an old article, but i would like to share it..

Read this out..

"""..My mother used to ask me what is the most important part of the body. Through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct answer. When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said, "My ears, Mommy."

She said, "No. Many people are deaf. But you keep thinking about it and I will ask you again soon."

Several years passed before she asked me again. Since making my first attempt, I had contemplated the correct answer. So this time I told her,

"Mommy, sight is very important to everybody, so it must be our eyes".She looked at me and told me, "You are learning fast, but the answer is not correct because there are many people who are blind."

Stumped again, I continued my quest for knowledge and over the years, Mother asked me a couple more times and always her answer was, "No. But you are getting smarter every year, my child."

Then last year, my grandpa died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying. Even my father cried. I remember that especially because it was only the second time I saw him cry. My Mom looked at me when it was our turn to say our final goodbye to Grandpa.

She asked me, "Do you know the most important body part yet, my dear?"

I was shocked when she asked me this now. I always thought this was a game between her and me. She saw the confusion on my face and told me,

"This question is very important. It shows that you have really lived in our life. For every body part you gave me in the past, I have told you were wrong and I have given you an example why. But today is the day you need to learn this important lesson".

She looked down at me as only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with tears.

She said, "My dear, the most important body part is your shoulder. I asked, "Is it because it holds up my head?"

She replied, "No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a loved one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in life, my dear. I only hope that you have enough love and friends that you will always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it..."""

(its a nice story isnt it?) ;))

Moral of the stories..
  • EYES:
Will always see for your friends no matter how they are..
  • EARS:
Will always listen to them..and how you understand them..
  • MOUTH:
Will always tell them the truth and give your honest opinions..Share with them..
Will offer your shoulder whenever they need one to cry and lean on, will give them strength when you find it hard for them to carry on by themselves..
  • HEART:
To love them for who they really are and not judge, Will always have a place for them..
  • HANDS:
To hold them whenever they need a little guidance, hold them when they might fall, to lend when they need helps..
  • ARMS:
Will always make them feel comfortable in a way by offer hugs when they need someone. Will try to warm them whenever they are in cold..
  • FEET:
To walk with them throughout their life and be the best friend as you can be.

""As every part of our body play a vital functions towards friendship.. :) ""

Have you ever honestly ask yourself which person in our lives means the most to us??,..

We often find that it is those who, giving much advice, solutions, cures, share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hands. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hours of grief, who can tolerate,who would understand us in a way no matter how we were and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares...


miss AIN said...

luv u jue!!!
best article tuh!=)

thnx 4 being such a great fren 2 me!
thanx 4 d sharing!
thnx 4 owez being der 4 me!
thnx jue!!


ctjuliana said...

owwwwh bebeh..
i luv u too..best kn article tuh..=)

dont thanks to me..cos i wont reply u..
just give me a hugs!! cos i will ask for more!! hehe..anytime beb, det is wat frens for wutt?? ;)
thnx to u oso..such plessure to hve a fren + rumet mcm u!!

(: ***hugs*** :)

k a m i said...

semangat kawan dowh..
jom p tgk cite bohsia jom..
boring aaa..

nuezz said...

pathology of frenz xde?

ctjuliana said...

nuezz : lps anatomy,,physiology dlu ..
tuh coming soon!! :DD pathology after physio keyh!!!bab pathology nieh.....diseases of friendship!! hohohohoohohoh..idea best tuh!!

miss AIN said...

aku xsbr tunggu pathology of frenship!=p

~taleh hug bnyk2, nnt ko nk lagi!

ctjuliana said...

eeee ain..awat kedekot sgt nih? hugs tuh free je!! bkn kne baya pon.. =((

miss AIN said...

taleh2..t ko ketagih!=P

nuezz said...

ok2..ak tunggu post disease/pathology of frenship
tp,klu ko nk wat physio nye gak...ak layan~

ainmusa said...

aku nak pathology of friendship!!hahaha.
pastu dah habes sume ko start anatomy of love lak.pastu disease.yg ni syok neh.haha

l e n a said...

bestnye this article =))
it makes me feel like i wanna love everybody!!

ctjuliana said...

miss ain : mne de ketageh2 nieh.. :D

nuezz : owhh..ssh gk la nk wat physiology of frenship..kne refer kat DR haikal dlu..then, bru ley fhm btol2.. :D

ainmusa : hahahah..smue tuh mmg syok..klo de idea aku wat..klo xde idea...ko wat la ek!!hehehe...

lena : yeah!! sgt tepat skali..appreciate people around us selagi dorg mseh ade.. =))

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